tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12151084245464445482024-03-13T11:13:51.997-07:00I'm just here for the party.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-65183304762770382012009-03-28T00:07:00.000-07:002009-03-28T14:23:57.566-07:00God saved her.Thank you, <a href="http://theanchoressonline.com/2009/03/27/32-days-of-love-beats-an-abortion/trackback/">Anchoress</a>, for beating the drums for life. I am in awe of people like <a href="http://babyfaithhope.blogspot.com/">Faith's mom</a> and <a href="http://theanchoressonline.com/2008/05/06/to-know-and-be-known/">Eliot's parents</a>. There is already such tremendous social pressure to abort the "less than perfect." Everyone owes these parents their deepest gratitude for sheltering and loving their beautiful children. It smooths the way for the rest of us when we have to make the difficult choices.<br /><br />I wish I could say that I always trust God that way, but too often I don't. Everything I know today I learned the hard way - including life.<br /><br />Abortion is ever-present in my life. So many women lawyers I know waited too long to have children, only to resort to Clomid, IVF, and other fertility means. If they get lucky and it takes, "selective reduction" is the next step in the fertility process. Whatever you call it - abortion, reduction, procedure - it seems sterile and clean, modern and responsible. It's the only thing you really can control when it comes to childbearing, which every woman finds out is more of a medical wilderness than you can imagine. Abortion seemed like the only easy answer for a universe of hard problems. Of course I was pro-choice. Everyone I respected was. And if it conflicted with my church, well, then maybe the church was wrong. Besides, how could I believe in a faith that would force me to behave so "irresponsibly." How could I believe in a faith that would force so much gratuitous pain? Pro-life seemed like being pro-cruelty in some circumstances.<br /><br />Then I got pregnant.<br /><br />And you know what, it was kind of gruesome. The sicker I got, the more weight I lost, the more I became convinced that no one, no one had the right to dictate that I or any other woman to go through this. I lost 12% of my body weight in two months. Swallowing anything, even water or my own saliva, made me vomit. When I finally got insurance approval for a $100 per pill anti-vomiting drug, it held the sickness at bay so long as I didn't try to move. I was dizzy and sick even in my sleep, when I could sleep. But even as I blamed my body for being so tremendously bad at being pregnant, I grew to love the tiny baby inside.<br /><br />But love without grace wasn't enough to stop me from trying to kill it. At 18 weeks and some change, we didn't know the gender, so when the hemorrhage started, the baby was still an "it." And when the doctor said he had some bad news, I was the one who asked for the "procedure."<br /><blockquote>The emergency room doctor gave us some privacy while he left to go schedule the D&C. I didn't want to face delivering the remains of my dead child at home. They'll just take it out, he said. A friend in the same position only took one day off work when her first fetus was determined to be "growing too slow" and removed. It was New Years Day. I wouldn't even need to take vacation.<br /><br />My ob-gyn came in a few hours later to do the pre-op. Yet another pelvic exam left me so sore I could hardly move. Hospital policy required a Foley catheter for an ultrasound that hurt every second it was in. Insult to injury - the ultrasound showed that my body was having severe contractions. I don't know what it showed the baby's body as doing. All they told me was "dead."<br /><br />"Schedule the procedure," I demanded. I know my rights.<br /><br />I was angry when my doctor told me it was better not to do any medical intervention if at all possible. What were we supposed to tell our families? "Oh hey, my dead baby is going to fall out of me any minute. And Happy Holidays, by the way." Ever tactful, we told them exactly that.<br /><br />And then we waited.<br /><br />How many days are you supposed to wait for your dead baby to fall out of you?<br /><br />We waited 22 more weeks.<br /><br />There is such relief in not having to be God.<br /><br />She is so beautiful it will make your heart stop.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I nearly killed her.</span></blockquote>I wrote that a few months <a href="http://adepaul.blogspot.com/2008/10/defending-indefensible-with-nice-gory.html">ago</a>. She's even more beautiful today.<br /><br />By rights, I should never get up from my knees in thanksgiving to the Lord for saving me, and her, from my outrageous and ungrateful stupidity. It was such a close thing. The thought of what could have happened causes me physical pain.<br /><br />God intervened, but it should not have been that close. Who am I to reject the gift of life, just because it's going to be scary and messy and potentially painful? Who am I to reject the gift of faith? What stupidity to reject the only bulwark and protector of all children - born or unborn - against the scared or selfish or misguided acts of their own parents. God gave me everything I needed to know to save my children, and I disregarded the information. By rights, I deserved no child. But God is merciful.<br /><br />It's a hard thing to hold on to what is right in this world, but the parents of Baby Faith and Baby Eliot have done it. I am certain that their loving example will give comfort to those who struggle against the modern world to see that there is another way.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-87699847377876763762009-02-19T08:10:00.000-08:002009-02-19T08:20:49.800-08:00Self-important faux conservative columnists - They're just like us!I suppose the only silver lining here is that we all know that Kathleen Parker's byline is going to be about as credible as any other <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-02-18/flying-on-air-force-one-with-the-obamas/full/">celebrity worshiper</a> at US Weekly.<blockquote>I was also struck by how lean and fit everyone is. The Obamas are thin people, a sight to behold in the age of obesity.</blockquote>Complete with creepy uber-fan stalking:<br /><blockquote>Uninhibited and guileless, they seemed utterly at ease with five strangers— especially, may I say, with the sole female, who just happened to have a little green Ugly Doll hanging from her purple purse, very similar to one spotted several weeks ago on <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-01-14/how-sasha-obama-triggered-a-hot-washington-fad/" target="_blank">Sasha’s book bag</a>. <p>The guys may talk football, leaving some women reporters clueless, but guys don’t know jack about the Ugly Doll fashion phenom begun by one Sasha Obama several weeks ago. I wouldn’t call my Ugly Doll “bait” exactly, but I might call it strategy. As a conversation starter, it worked.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>Poor Sasha. There will come a time when those little girls realize that almost every new person they meet is just exploiting them. They're going to feel manipulated and betrayed. And in this case, they would be right to think so.<br /></p><p>Via<br /></p>Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-7901482904790509932009-01-15T21:58:00.000-08:002009-01-15T22:22:00.403-08:00Honeymoon's Over, JerkAndrew Sullivan is a bad man, a disgrace to any group who would have him. His public attacks on Sarah Palin and her minor children are outrageous and delusional. He more than anyone bears the responsibility for mainstreaming these criticisms for the gleeful media pile on, which he then used to reinforce his insane belief that there's a "there" there. His "who me?" attempt to shirk responsibility for doing so is flatly dishonest. More than anyone else, he is responsible for bringing our nations politics and discourse to a new and disgusting low. His collective lunatic rantings evince a once-talented mind now rotted by misogyny, misopedia, and heterophobia. He remains willfully beyond redemption. <br /><br />So when I hear that Obama invited that scumbag to a private little dinner party, giving him both a further platform and dignifying his unhinged campaign attacks, "getting mad" doesn't cover it for me. Obama has always been kind of a jerk, but that kind of overt low-class petty little attack, especially after what Palin suffered during the election, is astounding. <br /><br />That kind of deeply personal insult is not the kind one readily forgives. <br /><br />Where exactly do I sign up for the volunteer office for whatever Republican challenger has the best shot in '12?Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-49815683443021652312009-01-05T19:59:00.000-08:002009-01-05T23:29:21.648-08:00Sacred, Profane, Inane: The Same?Via <a href="http://althouse.blogspot.com/2009/01/is-nothing-sacred.html">Althouse</a>, who highlights the same portion discussed here, a very interesting and good article from Christopher Hitchens. But then he gets the conclusion exactly wrong. He answers the question: "Is nothing sacred?" by saying that religions aren't, but speech is. I say that the only reason speech matters is because religion does. Valuing and emphasizing speech without reference to the reason and purpose of freedom of speech corrupts our society and our discourse. The value of speech is only in its value as tool for the conscience. <br /><span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br /><a href="http://www.vanityfair.com/politics/features/2009/02/hitchens200902?printable=true&currentPage=all">Hitchens</a>:<br /><blockquote>I can’t remember quite what I answered then, but I know what I would say now. “No, nothing is sacred. And even if there were to be something called sacred, we mere primates wouldn’t be able to decide which book or which idol or which city was the truly holy one. Thus, the only thing that should be upheld at all costs and without qualification is the right of free expression, because if that goes, then so do all other claims of right as well.” I also think that human life has its sacrosanct aspect, and though I can think of many circumstances in which I would take a life, the crime of writing a work of fiction is not a justification (even in the case of Ludlum) that I could ever entertain.</blockquote>He uses the phrase sacred to describe things like books, idols, and cities. But then he says that free expression should be upheld "at all costs" even above human life, which is "sacrosanct," but only in part. So for Hitchens, speech is sacred. The Bible, Ganesh, and Mecca are not.<br /><br />Freedom of conscience is the more sacred freedom; any value in the freedom of speech derives from the extent to which it serves freedom of conscience. (I'm <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_thought">not the only one</a> who ties these together; both are protected by the same amendment to the U.S. Constitution). Freedom of conscience means the freedom to apply your reason, judgment, and morality to your life. In doing so, you may strive to become a better person. It happens on the individual level, with or without speech. <br /><br />Freedom of speech is the tool that freedom of conscience uses at the society level. Only through speech can a society as a whole engage in the kind of self-questioning necessary to progress into something better. Speech allows society to evolve a conscience. Speech is the tool, but conscience is the goal.<br /><br />I do respect speech. The value it serves is so important that I believe almost all limitations on speech are to be avoided so as not to hinder the progress of the underlying goal. But that's no reason to celebrate all speech whether harmful or valueless. We don't do that anyway. Obscenity, for example, is illegal in many jurisdictions. Lots of speech isn't considered by law to be as valuable as other speech. The highest protection goes to political speech, the very means by which society works out its morals and values, the public conscience. Other speech is protected for the sole reason that curtailing it would chill this most valuable type of speech. I can think of lots of occasions in which speech can and maybe should be curtailed (time, place, and manner restrictions are often held to be constitutional). I can think of few, if any, situations where the government or society can or should impose on the conscience. I think that the farther speech strays from its essential purpose as tool for the development of the social conscience, the less valuable it becomes. <br /><br />Does anyone other than Hitchens believe that speech should be upheld "at all cost and without qualification"? Does he? This position glorifies speech that causes harm. I'm not talking about questioning the status quo, I'm talking about speech that causes real harm. The liberal intelligentsia would have us believe that obscenity prosecutions are bad. If we're talking James Joyce, or Salman Rushdie, who Hitchens' article discusses, then I agree. But do we all really think that we should tolerate or celebrate all speech that really is obscene? Fiction writers may be providing speech of value to society, but what about that Brazilian guy who got prosecuted for obscenity for the <a href="http://randazza.wordpress.com/2008/02/14/practical-obscenity-evaluation-two-girls-one-cup/">2 Girls 1 Cup</a> video a.k.a. "gonzo porn" (spoiler alert! 2 women poop and barf into each other's mouths). <br /><br />Is Hitchens right that we should venerate speech because we can't have any certainty as to which religion is correct? If we can't, then how can mere primates determine that speech is always the correct value to celebrate? Answer: by exercising the faculty that separates us from rest of the primates - reason. People can use reason and evidence to determine what religion is correct. One piece of evidence of the rightness of Christianity that led me back to the fold was during a secular theology class at a public university, the texts for which tried to argue against the miraculous nature of Christ. <br /><br />To debunk what some see as a miracle - the amazing spread and worldwide dominance of Christianity as a world religion in its first few centuries - the authors of the text argued that it was really just due to biological factors. The world population was being wiped out by disease, where Christians came to dominate through attrition. Christians tended to survive disease where heathens did not because the Christian doctrine of caring for one's neighbor led Christians to provide the basic hygeine and sustenance that led to dramatically greater survival rates. Patients who survived were either Christians cared for by their brethren or heathens eager to convert out of gratitude and awe to those who cared for them. <br /><br />The authors took great pains to point out how foreign the concept of caring for one's neighbor was in the society at the time - the better to justify their theory of the disproportionate impact of Christianity on demographics. That's right - they tried to debunk a supposed miracle by arguing that the doctrine led to the better chance for survival of humanity and Christianity. We are to disbelieve Christianity because Jesus told us how to survive plague. Luckily, this primate is able to apply her faculty of reason to say that Jesus got the whole "love thy neighbor" thing right. Read the Catechism of the Catholic Church - it's scary how right that thing is; Thank God he loves us. And what does it tell you right up front? <blockquote><a name="III"></a> <p> <a name="36"></a><b><a href="javascript:openWindow('cr/36.htm');"></a></b>"Our holy mother, the Church, holds and teaches that God, the first principle and last end of all things, can be known with certainty from the created world by the natural light of human reason." Without this capacity, man would not be able to welcome God's revelation. Man has this capacity because he is created "in the image of God".</p></blockquote><p></p><p>Reason, again. So yeah, I disagree with Hitchens as to whether we can know religion is sacred. Reason tells us. We are primates, but not merely so. But for him the speech faculty trumps. Why is that?<br /></p>Why is he threatened by this:<br /><blockquote>"Deep within his conscience man discovers a law which he has not laid upon himself but which he must obey. Its voice, ever calling him to love and to do what is good and to avoid evil, sounds in his heart at the right moment. . . . For man has in his heart a law inscribed by God. . . . His conscience is man's most secret core and his sanctuary. There he is alone with God whose voice echoes in his depths."<br /></blockquote>Why would Hitchens have us call this into question - why can't we apply this teaching to our lives, view the results, and decide for ourselves whether the evidence bears out that we must love each other, do what is good, and avoid evil? Evidence and reason won't tell us whether this is true? <br /><br />But no, according to Hitchens, it is sacred to say the following, so long as we are not convinced of its rightness:<br /><a name="I"></a><blockquote><a name="I">Conscience is a judgment of reason whereby the human person recognizes the moral quality of a concrete act that he is going to perform, is in the process of performing, or has already completed. In all he says and does, man is obliged to follow faithfully what he knows to be just and right. It is by the judgment of his conscience that man perceives and recognizes the prescriptions of the divine law: </a><p> </p><dl compact="compact"><dd><a name="I"><span style="font-size:-1;">Conscience is a law of the mind; yet [Christians] would not grant that it is nothing more; I mean that it was not a dictate, nor conveyed the notion of responsibility, of duty, of a threat and a promise. . . . [Conscience] is a messenger of him, who, both in nature and in grace, speaks to us behind a veil, and teaches and rules us by his representatives. Conscience is the aboriginal Vicar of Christ.<sup></sup></span></a></dd></dl></blockquote>And the saying of this is equivalent to the creation of gonzo porn, or at least entitled to the same protection. <br /><br />Hitchens' answer embodies the thesis of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eaE98w1KZ-c&e">this guy</a>, which is that the modern left believes that the evil in the world comes from the insistence of rightness. It's okay to <span style="font-style: italic;">say</span> as long as you don't <span style="font-style: italic;">believe</span> it, as long as you don't think you are right. Now that I think about it, Obama is their perfect candidate - he'll say anything, and no one thinks he believes it. The left defended his going to a radical church by arguing that he professed a faith he didn't believe for mere political reasons!<br /><br />When you fetishize and overemphasize speech the way Hitchens does, unmooring it from the values it serves, you create a sick discourse and you hurt society. You end up with people like the guy at the porno link who assert that not only should poop videos be protected, but that people who watch them for sexual kicks are less threatening to society than people who only like missionary sex with the lights off. <br /><br />Is that the society we want? Are those the values we intend to serve? <br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />(Quotations from the Catechism of the Catholic Church 1776, 1777, 1778, 6)</span>Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-57739129761270876882008-12-27T22:06:00.000-08:002008-12-27T23:41:21.147-08:00Seasons Greetings from the Cultural and Commercial One-Party State!!<span style="font-style: italic;">(In which I determine that Christopher Hitchens' hates Christmas solely on the basis that the newspapers print more crap in December, including his own.)</span><br /><br />Christopher Hitchens hates Christmas. <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2206713/?from=rss">What a shock</a>. Let's find out why . . .<br /><blockquote>Isn't Christmas a moral and aesthetic nightmare[?]</blockquote><p>A <span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">moral</span></span> nightmare? I'll reserve judgment on that. But I suspect that the aesthetic nightmare is a substantial part of it. [LATER: Having read the piece, he makes no case for Christmas/Christianity as a moral nightmare, merely an irrelvancy. He does go on about the aesthetics of it. Thank goodness for the cultural elite.] Those plastic heat-molded nativities have given rise to the unabashedly tacky ten-foot tall inflatable penguin snowglobes on every other lawn down the street. Oh yes, those are an aesthetic nightmare, along with the ugly criss-cross of wires across roofs and lawns you see in the afternoon when you drive down our street, with odd sun-bleached creche trotted out by the less fortunate (those without Costco memberships). It's hideous, even. Luckily the sun isn't up long enough most days to get the full ugly effect. But the nights, the nights! The whole street blazes.<br /></p><blockquote>The core objection, which I restate every December at about this time, is that for almost a whole month, the United States—a country constitutionally based on a separation between church and state—turns itself into the cultural and commercial equivalent of a one-party state. <p></p></blockquote><p>Actually, the way I read it, the Constitution in both intent and as enacted was meant to ensure the full freedom to celebrate religion without restriction by the government. Presumably, the free exercise clause would extent to celebrating in both the cultural and commercial realms. The US was never meant by the vast majority of the framers to be a secular nation, the Constitution doesn't (and shouldn't) protect you from the free exercise of others' religion. People were simply meant to follow their religion without the dictates of the state. So the state doesn't get to decide that things are "too Christian" and prohibit the practice. It's not the state's fault that most of the roots of our culture are firmly Christian. God love the Constitution for it.<br /></p><p>Hitch goes on to whine about "Dear Leader" propaganda (although I'm guessing he sees a bit more Santa than Jesus). But first he talks about seeing decorations in "train stations and airports" and then "to a more private place, such as a doctor's office or a store or a restaurant." All, though, are private property (if the first two aren't, they should be). So the Constitution isn't really something we're talking about anymore. The Constitution respects the rights of private actors to celebrate and take part in the celebration. Why would you object to the fact that so many private actors happen to agree! Unless you can tell me what your substantive objection is to the holiday observances, I call BS on your process argument.<br /></p>He goes on to make the universal conservative fallback argument - "think of the children!!" (gasp/chest clutch).<br /><blockquote>you cannot bar your own private door to the hectoring, incessant noise,<br /></blockquote>Um, what is he talking about here?<br /><blockquote>but must have it literally brought home to you by your offspring. </blockquote>Is he talking about the mention of Christmas in the public schools? At least that would tie his non sequitur about the Constitution into the piece. But of course, the most conservative and more observant Christians would probably tend to favor privatization of the school system. I wonder, though, how much the fact that government is so heavily involved in the nation's schools operates to promote, rather than dampen, widespread religious impulses and practices. I was fortunate enough to go to a private Catholic high school where we got to sing the religious carols in the liturgical choir instead of the Frosty/Rudolph pap. Maybe infusing more religion into the celebration would help to alleviate the aesthetic objection to December's decor. But if we're talking about indoctrinating the offspring, I don't think you can make the argument that it's the fault of the public school system for the celebration without recognizing that the existence of public schools may be suppressing religious indoctrination, which seems to be a more serious affront to the spirit of the Constitution's protection of religion (although admittedly not a violation of its letter).<br /><blockquote>Time that is supposed to be devoted to education is devoted instead to the celebration of mythical events.<br /></blockquote>Most of the kids around here are on month-long winter break. Should the kids not get vacations? At any rate, no <span style="font-weight: bold;">celebration</span> of <span style="font-weight: bold;">mythology </span>should be permitted. No wonder here - <span style="font-weight: bold;">stamp that out</span>. What poor beasts would Hitchens raise, I wonder. And Hitch? You're not going to win many people over by claiming that what they believe to be fact is mere myth. You may not believe that to be true, but guess what. We can agree to disagree. Why? The great United States doesn't impose one belief system on us all.<br /><br />Then he whines for awhile about Christmas kitch in the media. Eh. The newspapers print garbage all year long. Literally. The unsolicited local rag is clogging up the recycling bin, still in its wrapper.<br /><blockquote>Imagine that conclusive archaeological and textual evidence emerged to prove that the whole story of the birth, life, and death of Jesus of Nazareth was either a delusion or a fabrication?<br /></blockquote>And then, after that, suppose we imagine that man walked the Earth with the Satan-lizards, who died in Noah's flood because they didn't fit on the big boat, and that there is a grand conspiracy to forge australopithicene remnants to fling into the Great Rift Valley when you secularists are all looking to other way. Wait, I can't do that. The vast weight of evidence is against that position. As does the vast weight of extant evidence exist on the side of the actual life and death of a person named Jesus of Nazareth. As for the divinity of Christ, the vast weight of evidence I've seen is on the side of the Church as well. Jesus told us what we are for and how we should live. I see the collective efforts of humanity to adhere to his message and what happens when they adhere to the message or deviate from it. I don't believe a mere mortal could have given such a perfect set of instructions, irregardless of how imperfectly we all follow them. That builds up credibility with me. As <a href="http://www.leaderu.com/orgs/probe/docs/unique.html">others have noted</a>, Jesus claimed to be God. Therefore, he is either God, or he is a liar, or he is insane. I believe he is the former for a number of reasons. But I also believe his teachings on the meaning and purpose of humanity are too perfect for him to be either of the latter.<br /><blockquote>Serious Christians, of the sort I have been debating lately, would have no choice but to consider such news as absolutely calamitous.<br /></blockquote>Certainly, but what an argument to make! Imagine that every believer in history was either a liar or misguided. Imagine that all the evidence you've ever relied on was either a fabrication or delusion. Imagine you've been living in a Matrix-like fantasy programmed along the internal logic of Christian teaching, when the real world outside the mainframe follows no such moral logic. In short, imagine that you lack the capacity for reason. Then try to debate the point, and you will lose! Well, yes. But I am unsure of what that exercise proves.<br /><br />Then, a bold claim:<br /><blockquote>If monotheism . . . were to be utterly and finally discredited, <em>we would be exactly where we are now</em>.<br /></blockquote>Most Christians will tell you that the monotheism part is more incidental to the central message of Christianity, which is the essential goodness of God's creation. It's not self-evident that we would be where we are culturally or morally if we were to discredit the idea that existence is good.<br /><blockquote>All the agonizing questions that we face, from the idea of the good life and our duties to each other to the concept of justice and the enigma of existence itself, would be just as difficult and also just as fascinating.<br /></blockquote>Would they really? If you posit the nonexistence of any benevolent creator god, then you must be open to the question that mankind was not created. You admit the possibility that creation is not good. That man is not good. It seems to me that that would make the "agonizing questions" all the more difficult. It's not going to help us actually determine what our duties are to each other if we must first stop and debate whether we are, as a threshhold matter, worth anything at all. .<br /><blockquote>If the totalitarians cannot bear to abandon their adoration of their various Dear Leaders, can they not at least arrange to hold their ceremonies in private?<br /></blockquote>During the homily at midnight mass on Christmas eve/morning, the priest bade us to give thanks for our freedom. I do. I am very thankful that the Constitution protects me from people like Christopher Hitchens, who would have me celebrate the goodness of mankind and the hope for salvation in private, in secret, in the dark.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-46491539294440377352008-12-27T14:05:00.001-08:002008-12-27T23:31:09.870-08:00Pardon me?<span style="font-style: italic;">(In which sweeping generalizations about character cause me to make a political prediction)</span><br /><br />Megan McCardle <a href="http://meganmcardle.theatlantic.com/archives/2008/12/request.php">writes</a>:<br /><br /><blockquote>Can we hold off <a href="http://obsidianwings.blogs.com/obsidian_wings/2008/12/cheney-and-the.html">excusing</a> Clinton's egregious pardons on the grounds of Bush's pardoning all of his subordinates for horrible crimes until Bush, y'know, actually pardons some subordinates for horrible crimes?<br /></blockquote>Which leads me to wonder if perhaps she misread the post in question. But sure enough:<br /><blockquote>I wonder if the media will point out the comparative significance of the use (and abuse) of the power of the pardon in the context of Holder's hearings and the pardons that Bush will inevitably hand down to his inner circle.</blockquote><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Inevitably?</span><br /><br /><br />I think the likelihood of Bush pardoning his inner circle is exceedingly low for a number of reasons: Bush's idealism and optimism, Obama's thoughtful rationality, and because it will create a wedge between Obama and the far left.<br /><br />Bush seems to be a pretty principled guy - he decides what the right thing is then, everything else be damned, he goes for it. It's not <span style="font-style: italic;">conservative</span> principle, and I disagree with what he's decided are the "right" things to pursue, but I have no doubt that he sincerely believes he's doing the right thing. (The extreme range of disagreement on this point is the most obvious dividing line between the mainstream Democrats and far-left netroots). But pardoning his inner circle will seem like an admission by Bush that he knows his administration has been in the wrong morally and legally (instead of just politically) throughout. That Bush would "inevitably" issue pardons would make sense for leftists whose worldview envisions Bush and Cheney as cynical cigar-toting fatcats laughing as they waterboard their subordinates. It doesn't seem that inevitable to those who think that Bush sincerely believes that he's doing the right thing, however misguided he seems to be at times. And I don't think Bush would want to give satisfaction or credence to those who've screamed the whole time that he's been acting with criminal intent.<br /><br />Bush also seems to be an idealist and an optimist (see, "We'll be greeted as liberators"). I don't think he actually thinks that there will actually be any criminal prosecutions of members of his administration. I think he's expecting Obama not to play politics on this one. Obama, for all his shortcomings, is a pretty thoughtful guy. He's also a lawyer and law professor. I'm certain that he's spent huge portions of his adult life thinking about the theory of government: why it exists, what it should do, how it can be improved. Not just the policy, but the very nature and purpose, and how the structure of government itself helps to facilitate or impede its effects. And he's got to know, as Bush does, that the strength of the United States is its flexibility. Left-leaning "Living Constitutionalists" like Obama probably have an easier time wrapping their minds around the idea that the people should always be able to have a say to change the effects and the structure of government. After all, the Constitution, they tell us, is not a suicide pact. Obama knows better than to try to enact his agenda and then set it in stone. For one thing, he won't be able to accomplish everything he wants to and will need room for future "progress." The single greatest feature of the United States government is the free election. There is no flexibility in government without an orderly transition of power. There's no more need for the guillotine and attendant rivers of blood in the streets when you can vote a revolution every four years. But you're going to lose the "orderly" part of the transition when you raise the stakes of losing for the deposed party. Even though politicians are generally crooks, the increasing tendency to criminalize political conduct is concerning. Jailing your political opponents when they fall out of power is for banana republics. The United States is or ought to be better than that. It's a half-step removed from killing the sons of the conquered king. It's tribal. It's animalistic. It's an impulse we should resist. I think Obama will. I'm positive that it's something he's thought about quite a bit. And Obama hasn't ever, as far as I've been able to tell, made any representations about wanting to prosecute Bush officials. I don't know why Bush would expect him to. Without prosecution, there is no need for a pardon.<br /><br />Finally, and this may be the most significant, refusing to pardon administration officials will cause Obama to stay closer to the political center and not to stray to the far left. Obama's already started to indicate that he's not going to marginalize the right. (See, Rick Warren). The far-leftists are screaming for the heads of Dick Cheney and John Yoo. I don't think Obama will want to prosecute for the reasons above and because I don't think he wants to get mired in the muck of the last eight years. Why would the "Change" president want to spend his political capital on fruitless prosecutions when he's got an extremely ambitious domestic agenda to enact? But by letting the far left scream about prosecutions, as I've no doubt they'll continue to do, Bush can help drive a wedge between Obama and the far left. Risky? Maybe, but it's not like Obama actually owes anything to the far left. Their support has been so enthusiastic and so unconditional that he hasn't had to make any promises or concessions for their support. If Bush takes the prosecutions off the table by issuing pardons, maybe he'll pave the way for a less fraught relationship between Obama and the leftists. Let them keep screaming for something they'll never get, and the far left will only marginalize itself.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-59203435196689869962008-12-18T13:56:00.001-08:002008-12-18T14:44:10.486-08:00"Gays = blacks" is a bad political analogy.<span style="font-style: italic;">(In which the Rick Warren outcry proves that pro-gay marriage forces really are engaged in a culture war against Christians.)</span><br /><br />Let me get this straight: No one who isn't gay can oppose gay marriage because it's not going to affect your marriage. Ergo - it's not going to affect you at all. <br /><br />Your concerns about the social, political, and governmental effects of such a profound legal shift are unfounded, because your slippery slope arguments are paranoid and after all, gays don't want to impose anything on you, they just want to be left in peace to quietly enjoy the rights that they have.<br /><br />So you don't need to worry that people like Andrew Sullivan declare war on the "Christianists" and Mormons and the violent Prop-8 protestors because you started it, and they're going to back right off when they get what they want. You're not supposed to care that state bar organizations are considering requiring all new attorneys to swear fealty to the idea of gay behavoir as morally neutral as a condition of practicing law in the state. And you're not supposed to worry about the lefty outrage at Rick Warren's participation in the Obama inauguration, even though he's just there to say a prayer.<br /><br />Except: Shouldn't we worry about that? Shouldn't we worry that political activists are trying to drum believers out of any participation in public life?<br /><br />I support civil unions, but not marriage. It's a hard position, because all someone needs to do is throw out the phrase "Separate But Equal" to end the argument. We all know about "Separate But Equal" is evil. No more discussion. And I can certainly see the appeal in trying to analogize the gay-marriage activists of today with civil rights-era crusaders of the past. We can look back and identify in stark moral terms that one side of that issue was good, and the other was evil. <br /><br />But that analogy backfires. There is no place anywhere near the mainstream of modern society for members of the KKK. Gay-marriage activists, when appealing to that argument, relegate most traditional Christians to the status of Klansmen. They are saying if this is your belief, then get out of society. We don't want you anywhere close to society. And if you give your kid some wackadoo name, we won't put "Happy Birthday, Jesus" on his birthday cake either.<br /><br />Besides, if anything, the Christians will identify with the persecuted minority in the analogy anyway. The gay marriage activists act as though religious belief is something that can or should be changed. Strong believers might say that that religious belief is more like having a different skin color. It's not something you can change. <br /><br />If it's just civil rights that gays are after (ie: "the 147billion government benefits conferred by marriage" that we're always hearing about), then perhaps the gay rights movement would be better served by finding a way to attain the rights themselves in a way that allows others to recognize and respect their rights <span style="font-style: italic;">without having to actually change their minds about the morality</span>. <br /><br />A good way to do that would be to push for marriage equivalent unions that the government labels as something other than "marriage," which has a distinct doctrinal meaning and special significance within many of the Christian faith.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-69226112113022765832008-11-26T12:26:00.000-08:002008-11-26T12:37:20.113-08:00Sarcasm Rebound<div style="text-align: left;">I find it hilarious that in an article calling people stupid for their band names, the authors tell the band Def Leppard to "<a href="http://www.cracked.com/article_15118_p2.html">save people the energy of mocking you</a>," but then illustrate the post with a shot from the made-for-VH1-so-bad-it's-good "<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0280754/">Hysteria, the Def Leppard Story</a>" and not the actual band. Hey Cracked guys: <a href="http://www.cathedralstone.net/Pics/DefLeppard1.jpg">This is the band.</a><br /></div><img src="file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/dxd/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot.jpg" alt="" /><img src="file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/dxd/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot-1.jpg" alt="" />Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-39532578847883419352008-11-25T23:04:00.000-08:002008-11-26T00:08:01.717-08:00The "civil rights" fallacy.There's an internal contradiction in position of gay marriage supporters who insist that marriage is a civil right, but claim that civil unions not called marriage but affording full marriage benefits are not sufficient. Is it the "rights" you want, then the rights you should get - why should you care what they're called? The answer, of course, is that what they want is to be considered "normal," so they want to their relationships called the same thing that "normal" relationships are called. By insisting on the name, you're changing from a negative right to a positive right - you want to force others to have to call you married, no matter what their consciences tell them to do. <br /><br />Neither am I convinced by the argument that two gay people married doesn't affect whether my husband and I get divorced. It's my kid that I'm worried about, the culture she's going to grow up in. I want her to grow up and get married to a husband she loves so that she can experience having children of her own. I want to have the legal right to teach her morality and to express a preference for heterosexual marriage within the strictures of my conscience and faith without having her public school teachers undermining me. I want children in need of adopting to have the opportunity to be placed in a home with a mother and a father. I want religious-based adoption services to be able to express a preference for heterosexual married couples without being shut down (see: Catholic charities in Massachusetts). <br /><br />Definitionally, marriage cannot be between two people of the same gender. Marriage is between a man, a woman, and God. Homosexual behavior is forbidden by God. So that's where the religious people are coming from. Calling a state-sanctioned homosexual union a "marriage" is an affront to their beliefs. That's not negotiable for people of faith. But I think they do a disservice to the cause of religion in general by stopping there, because the fact is, a lot of people hear you say "God" and go, "that doesn't apply to me." I think religious people should do better explaining why marriage should be between a man and a woman in secular terms when appealing to secular people. Otherwise, they are going to think that your statement of faith is merely arbitrary bigotry and they're going to become even more prejudiced against believers. <br /><br />I think there are purely secular reasons for allowing the state to define marriage as between a man and a woman. The state has a HUGELY compelling interest, I would say primary interest, in its own self-preservation. Procreative unions are necessary both for the continuation of the state and the continuation of the state-as-we-know-it. Husband/wife led families can raise children who are knowledgable and comfortable with the idea of procreative unions of their own. Can gay people raise heterosexual children? Of course, but if you're talking about incentives, pushes, that could make the next generation engage in reproductive unions occur earlier and more frequently. With birth rates falling to below replacement rates in industrialized nations around the world, I think the governmental differentiation between hetero- and homo-sexual unions passes legal muster. It makes a hell of a lot more sense to me than other government social engineering plans (see: mortgage interest deduction). <br /><br />I also see danger in expanding the definition of marriage because it is susceptible to being defined out of existence. I don't have a problem with the state recognizing heterosexual marriages that will not result in children because of the enforcement problem - bad enough for the state to interfere with one's uterus, but God help us when it starts burrowing up into the ovaries to take a peek before issuing licenses. But if definitionally non-reproductive unions are permitted that are called "marriage," protected by law from having people express any preferenecs contrary to those unions, but conferring all the same benefits, that 1) dilutes the benefit to the state that accrues by favoring heterosexual marriage and 2) in doing so, places a higher calculus on legal reasons, as opposed to procreative reasons, when determining whether to bond. I don't think even the gay marriage activists can deny that allowing two people of the same gender to "marry" requires a radical cultural shift from any kind of understanding of "marriage" that has existed in the past. The nonmarried will feel like suckers for not marrying, for example, their college roommates to get in-state tuition as a married spouse, because everyone knows that you just sign a piece of paper and get benefits. Unlike heterosexual marriages, there is no accompanying risk of children to offset that legal benefit. <br /><br />I see the defining out of existence thing happening with "human" rights. Animal rights people who want to grant some limited rights to chimpanzees as our nearest human relatives (see: France), and then how it's a violation of animal rights to eat meat at all, even though humans have been doing so since the dinosaurs (that's a Sarah Palin joke), but purportedly serious people think that robots and plants should have rights too (see: "flowers shouldn't be decapitated needlessly" people - which, flowers don't have heads, those are really their reproductive organs you're cutting off when you pick a bloom, but that's not somewhere you really want to go, do you?). And then human rights mean nothing, people wonder why we treat <a href="http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080826020844AAxBaFj">chimps </a>any different than babies, and actual human fetuses aren't entitled to everything because we're all the same and we eat meat, so why should that matter. Ditto animal-human hybrids geneticists work to create in the name of medical research. WTF? Conclusion: You start defining things away from their essential meanings, and then your definition no longer means anything and the meaning itself is devalued.<br /><br />I hate the way these gay "rights" debates have created and calcified divisions in our society. These debates always seem to presuppose that, for example, I am a heterosexual because I am wholly fulfilled in a relationship with a man, notwithstanding that there are extremely few men and probably a very few women with whom that could be the case. There are so many ways for human beings to be intimate with each other, sexually, emotionally, psychically. But if one kind of intimacy is stimulated by one kind of situation, you have to jump into the gay box or the straight box or the bi-box. If you enjoy/need emotionally intimate relationships with girlfriends, even physically affectionate relationships, then you're a lesbian, even though you may not want those same girlfriends touching you certain places (I'm thinking of Anne Shirley's "bosom friends" - people don't touch each other the way they used to). And because I don't get out much, I'm thinking of Dumbledore and Grindelwald - here we've read about this faceted, intense, tumultuous, and meaningful relationship between the two men, but then here comes J.K. Rowling months later saying "Dumbledore is gay" and now we're not thinking about the relationship in its uniquely fascinating ways, we're thinking (I'm thinking) oh, Dumbledore likes male members in a certain portion of his own anatomy, throw him in the queer box, now we know where to put him. <br /><br />Everything about today's debate reduces human relationships to orifices and appendages. I think it's sad.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-54970656136340744692008-11-07T13:24:00.000-08:002008-11-07T14:28:50.220-08:00The end of bigotry? Um, no.I'm interested to see how the newly dominant leftists will disclaim their bigoted fringe. Expressions of racism on the left (for example, the Clarence Thomas hearings) haven't been seen as part of the Democratic mainstream because of the Democrats explicit focus on promotion of minority issues. Pro-border enforcement Republicans get unfairly tarred as racists because there are some racists that support enforcement and there is no real focus on minority issues in the Republican platform (because the focus is on equality of opportunity for all people, not particular groups). What will the Democrats do if the American mainstream starts to believe that the Democratic agenda is a mere pretext for anti-Christian bigotry?<br /><p></p><blockquote><p>The Christianist popular front began with the Romney strategy. Then it morphed into Prop 8, funded by $20 million of Mormon money. The leadership of the LDS church has every right to do this; but equally gay people and their families now have every right to highlight the Mormon church as an enemy of civil rights and of gay people everywhere. <span style="font-weight: bold;">This will be decried as bigotry.</span> But gays are not fighting to remove the civil rights of Mormons; <span style="font-weight: bold;">but Mormons have successfuly campaigned to remove the civil rights of gays. </span></p><p>. . .<br /> </p><p>Gay people have every right to regard the Mormon church hierarchy as a <span style="font-weight: bold;">mortal enemy.</span> </p></blockquote><p>This today from everyone's favorite anti-Israel gay gossip conspiracy blogger at the Atlantic, to whom I will not link. Note how he admits his own bigotry and then doubles down, justifing bigotry as a political counter-tactic and proclaiming that the faith leaders of millions of Americans are his mortal enemies. </p><p>There are undoubtedly anti-Christian bigots. There are, in all likelihood, Democrats, the party most overtly concerned about the separation of church and state. Their platform provides no cover for this particular expression of bigotry. But does the Democratic mainstream want us to believe they're all engaged in a battle against "The Christianist Front"? I'm very interested to see how the mainstream left deals with its bigoted fringe. <br /></p><p>87% of Americans self-identify as Christians. Letting Andrew Sullivan set the tone of Democratic governance is not, I'm guessing, going to serve the Democratic party well electorally.<br /></p>Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-81578340436948580352008-11-05T11:49:00.000-08:002008-11-05T13:19:00.108-08:00Yes Yes Yes!<h3 style="font-weight: normal;" class="post-title">Obama-voting Althouse asks the exact right question:<br /></h3><h3 class="post-title"><a href="http://ctunnel.com/index.php/1010110A/72e88d593961b7511d3dac4694d0638fb1f8dd4db63b7bda42e03535c7508c9e8c6f015d122b0cca04da704be8ea311c5f341e22ac18a68e4147278f38c3bb1dba0792d4de63fbab19635" title="So who are the frontrunners for 2012?"></a></h3><h3 class="post-title"><a href="http://ctunnel.com/index.php/1010110A/72e88d593961b7511d3dac4694d0638fb1f8dd4db63b7bda42e03535c7508c9e8c6f015d122b0cca04da704be8ea311c5f341e22ac18a68e4147278f38c3bb1dba0792d4de63fbab19635" title="So who are the frontrunners for 2012?"> </a></h3><blockquote><h3 class="post-title"><a href="http://althouse.blogspot.com" title="So who are the frontrunners for 2012?">So who are the frontrunners for 2012?</a> </h3> That's the wrong question. The right question is: What can Republicans do to make us want them again?<br /><br />And I'm going to put the "lameness" tag on this post in anticipation of the answer: Sit back and wait for the Democrats to screw up.</blockquote><br />We need to make the case for our candidates and our message and start doing it now. Human beings aren't perfect, politicians especially, but we need to not only keep the supporters we had, but convince MORE people.<br /><br />Sarah Palin, I'm looking at you. She's one of our most promising up-and-comers, but after her public filleting we're going to find a way to get more people on her/our side. This is going to take discipline.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-68689598420437386082008-11-05T09:35:00.000-08:002008-11-05T10:25:59.786-08:00It feels like morning in July.It's going to be a very long day. The Republican party needs to rebuild the brand, making the most of the current retreat to build its strength back up and get ready for our next moment of opportunity. We're going to have to be smart about it. <br /><br />Knives out for Obama is not going to work, not for awhile. The fact is, Obama doesn't need us. He's got the votes, the House and Senate, and the "mandate." For right now, let's let him have it. We believe in conservative principles because we know that's what leads to the best results for Americans. Let's let America see the full effect of the policies of the left now that the Obama/Reid/Pelosi Democrats don't have the political cover of "ooh the nasty Republicans wouldn't let us HELP you." It will be easier to take power from the Dems if we let them self-destruct. <br /><br />We know so little about Obama, but there's one thing we know for a fact: Obama wants to be popular, but he'll always take the path of least resistance. Obama wants us right now, to prove his bipartisan unity credentials, but he doesn't need us. If we send the message that he cannot win us over, he will not try. We won't help ourselves by undermining what little power over public opinion we may still have. And ultimately, being seen as not trying to tear him down will add to our credibility and hasten the day when power will shift back to us. <br /><br />In shaping the new party, we need to get past ideology and back to <span style="font-weight: bold;">values</span>. Ideology is too flimsy a tentpole for the big one we need. We can't all agree on the best way to achieve a good, safe, prosperous country, but we need to make sure that American knows that those are our goals. We don't believe in, for example, free trade or free markets for their own sakes, we believe in them because as a <span style="font-weight: bold;">practical </span>matter, these policies work to actually help people. America doubts our motives. <br /><br />We need better candidates. Drumming the non-ideologically "pure" out of the party isn't going to help us. We're better off with Peggy Noonan with us than against us. Intra-party wars aren't going to help. I don't want to see the hinted-at Romney vs. Palin bloodbath. Let's not let the Democrats win this war through attrition. <br /><br />Finally, we need to build a better grassroots, with the aim of getting our message out no matter what the media does. The MSM knows its got egg on its face for its campaign coverage, and it's going to try to regain credibility by picking at its newly annointed. There are those on the left who believe that the media is biased <span style="font-style: italic;">against</span> them, and the media's newfound "integrity" is going to add fuel to that fire. We need to build a culture that marginalizes and dissipates the power of the old media. Turning off the TV seems like a good place to start. Any kind of information monopoly needs to be busted. The more channels of information everyone has, the better it is for us because <span style="font-style: italic;">our message is better</span>. <br /><br />I'm relieved that the election is over. We know where we stand. We don't need to lose anymore soliders fighting this one. We lost. All of our resources need to be put into making ourselves better, because America is going to need us, and probably sooner than it thinks.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-39605865015972749132008-10-30T23:01:00.000-07:002008-10-30T23:40:37.381-07:00Things are not fine for the middle class as I know it.I listen to right-wing radio and for the most part agree with what I hear, but I can't help getting annoyed at the pundits who keep insisting that the Obama tax refund plan is meaningless to the middle class. Twice today I had to stifle the urge to call in (Gallagher and Hewitt) to tell them that I don’t care anymore that we’re not technically in a recession yet. It’s coming. It will hurt. And it’s going to hurt families making on less than $150,000, all of whom are, we are told, getting a refund. But when a man <a href="http://taxcut.barackobama.com/">promises my family $1,800</a>, that’s not nothing.<br /><br />I could use that money for the great Democratic boogey-man, those “unexpected health care expenses” used to justify every ill-advised expansion of welfare boondoggles. Oddly enough, I have some of those. My toddler started day care eight weeks ago and has been ill for the last seven. We have world-class health insurance through my employer, even though it takes a big chunk of out of my take-home pay. Still, ER copays aren't cheap. At least competition in healthcare is alive for now -- we’ve gotten to to try the sparkling new local ER, where a child-phobic respiratory therapist accidentally hurt our toddler with a too-large suction catheter, and then last week we got to visit the run-down dump of a downtown children’s hospital where the cheerful effociency of the pediatric nurses nearly distracted us from the holes in the drywall. End result, we’re down hundreds of dollars this month in copays. But finally, we pray, she is safe and well. Our family is happy. Our fundamentals are strong.<br /><br />Our finances are not.<br /><br />According to the Interactive Class-Finder on New York Times website (how British!), I’m high-upper-middle because of my “prestigious” attorney job, but Obama just thinks I’m middle-class. I make less than $100,000 per year, but I’m likely to hit that number in the next 2-3 years. We live in a decent older house in a nice city just 30 minutes commute from downtown. Our daughter goes to a lovely church-run daycare while my husband goes to graduate school. We’re the American dream family: just starting out, working hard, and stretching, stretching to reach something better.<br /><br />But there’s a pretty good chance we won't make it. We gambled by buying a high-priced house at what turned out to be the market peak. We hedged out bets by paying extra to fix the rate, which apparently makes us suckers - no balloon-payment holiday for us!. The mortgage is hefty. Both of them are, actually. They eat 80% of what I take home. In the meantime, the family eats well enough, because I now cook everything from scratch. Even though we’re poorer now than ever, I actually feel more connected to traditionally conservative values – it’s hard not to identify with my foremothers while I’m baking bread, soaking beans, boiling sugar for desserts and jams. But some of the fun leaves my one-time hobby when I have to calculate the cost-per-head of everything that goes into the dish.<br /><br />But we get along ok as we dance right along the line, generally spinning just this side of solvency but occasionally skipping over it. We still buy books and lunches and basic cable TV, and if our kid wears clearance Garanimals then at least she always has the expensive best-quality diapers next to her skin. Scrimping is our new normal; our definition of "splurge" has changed radically. We’re lucky enough to have student loans and credit cards get us down the home stretch, just 24 months until my husband gets his professional degree and starts working. We've bought the American dream, and are leveraging into it everything we can grasp. The expectation of riches doesn't make the rags anymore fun to wear.<br /><br />$1,800. That's a lot of money to buy nice things with, things that would make a difference in our daily lives. It's a smaller dream, to be sure. But it's the bigger Christmas celebration with more people I've been wishing for. A trip to the overseas military base to see my brother's new baby. New suits for a new body instead of wedging into the industrial Spanx (generic-brand, of course) to fit into pre-pregnancy clothes. Hell, it’s<a href="http://townhall.com/Columnists/AmandaCarpenter/2008/07/15/michelle_obamas_$600_earrings"> three pairs of earrings</a>! Or it’s one little thing every month with the money freed up by paying down a credit card.<br /><br />So what’s the problem? I pay taxes. I wish I paid fewer taxes. I’m not going to have to pay more, if I can take Obama at his word. I’ll get what I want and others will pay. I ought to be happy that Robama Hood wants to steal from the rich and give it to me.<br /><br />But I'm not. Why?<br /><br />Obvious knee-jerk lefty response: I’m too stupid to know what’s good for me. But that’s not it, precisely the opposite. I’m against this stupid “tax cut” for pure self-interest. If I let him soak the rich now, I’ll never <b style="">be</b> rich. Debts must be paid, books balanced. If he taxes the rich and the corporations, there will be fewer jobs. When my husband graduates, his student loans will come due, job or no job. There is no way we can pay them on my salary alone. If we default, we’re just contributing to the financial downward spiral. That’s not going to help the large financial instutitions. Any more bad investments and the insurance investors are going to feel the squeeze, giving them less to spend on . . . cha-ching . . . lawyers like me! As the maxim goes, good attorneys are easier to replace than good secretaries, so let’s see where that leaves us. . . ah yes, not able to make the mortgage payments we were making previously. Thus continueth the circle of failure. And that presumes that everything that Obama is saying is true: that there will be a tax cut, and that I will get it. Already one of my state's U.S. Representative had the <a href="http://coaching.typepad.com/espresso_pundit/2008/10/the-exact-point.html">brilliant idea</a> of having the federal government cut tax cut checks directly to the states, not the people. Federalism, indeed.<br /><br />The country needs economic growth.<span style=""> </span><b style=""><i style="">I</i></b> need economic growth. I’m not selling my future for 1,800 pieces of silver, even if it comes from “the rich” or corporations or robber-barons or even those making just a little bit more than me. I don’t give a rat’s ass about fairness in the tax code or “helping” the middle class at the expense of anyone else. Obama is right that things are not fine. They’re not fine for me. But there’s not-fine for right now and there’s looming disaster, and I’m ok with sucking along at not-fine for awhile while we regroup and beat it together, instead of whining about who should be hardest hit. <br /><br />So when I hear right-wing pundits claim that no one needs any of Obama’s tax-refunds, I get frustrated. That argument doesn’t persuade me, and <i style="">I’m on your side.</i> But in the meantime, there are people suffering as there always are. We don't need to belittle the plight of those desperate for some relief who reach for the dreamlet Obama dangles. We need to tell them about the better dream they’re selling out.<br /><br />I am middle class. I am struggling. And I am voting against Obama so that one day I won't have to struggle.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-70750384923576569722008-10-18T23:16:00.001-07:002008-10-19T02:10:19.473-07:00Defending the indefensible - with nice gory personal details at the end.It's funny that the conservative blogosphere seems to have largely ignored the debate quotation that has the liberal bloggers going out of their minds. Make that air quotation - McCain's reference to the "health of the mother" justification for abortion.<br /><br />While fully recognizing that most Americans would disagree with me, I think that McCain's position is insufficiently pro-life. But that doesn't stop this <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/10/15/mccain-mockingly-suggests_n_135072.html">HuffPo guy</a> from deciding that McCain is the devil for using scare quotes around the term "women's health" when used as a justification for abortion. I think McCain deserves to be defended.<br /><br />HuffPo guy ignores the fact that "health of the mother" has been used to justify abortions, even late-term abortions, for problems most people don't consider health problems. According to the <a href="http://articles.latimes.com/2008/jul/04/nation/na-obamaabort4">LA Times</a>:<br /><blockquote>The official position of <span id="{BF1B7509-0A36-451A-9C4E-283C1471053B}" class="caps">NARAL</span> Pro-Choice America, an abortion rights group that endorsed Obama in May, states: “A health exception must also account for the mental health problems that may occur in pregnancy."<br /></blockquote> It's not a far leap to get from there to purely emotional distress. Which, don't get me wrong, I don't want pregnant women to be upset. Even when it occurs, however, it's never fetus intentionally trying to make your life miserable. Why should the fetus be the one to pay the ultimate price? But in today's world, if you dare to believe that emotional stress doesn't have the same moral weight as killing someone, that makes YOU evil. Question the morality of the pro-abortion folks, and watch the liberal villagers come charging with their pitchforks.<br /><br />Which is appropriate, because they can't resist using them on straw men.<br /><br />Arguments in this area always seem to assume that any questioning of the "health" exception as most broadly applied means that you would rather women just die. Actually, though, <a href="http://jezebel.com/5064553/memo-to-senator-mccain-my-health-is-not-an-extreme-position">Senator McCain doesn't think your concern for your health is extreme</a>. He thinks your concern for your "health" is extreme ("health" defined as mental stress, emotional turmoil, or inconvenience). His air quotes are appropriate because actual health as traditionally defined is not what he's talking about. McCain supports the health of the mother exception for abortion when it's talking about physical health. Obama <a href="http://articles.latimes.com/2008/jul/04/nation/na-obamaabort4">distanced</a> himself from the overly broad NARAL "health" exception also.<br /><br />Tellingly, Ms. Jezebel's real-world example has nothing to do with actual health either:<br /><p></p><blockquote>[G]o read <a href="http://www.boston.com/news/globe/magazine/articles/2004/01/25/my_late_term_abortion/">Gretchen Voss's story about hers</a> [second trimester abortion]— why she had one, how it <em>wasn't</em> avoidable and how ridding the world of such procedures would have made her life much harder.</blockquote>So I read it. What did I find? Ms. Voss's fetus was diagnosed with a severe neural defect that made it likely to die in utero or shortly after birth in gruesome fashion. That is enough to cause no end of mental distress to Ms. Voss and her husband. That would have happened either way. But how much emotional distress was saved by not letting nature take its course? How much emotional distress was saved in not letting the pregnancy miscarry a few weeks down the line, a few months, a few years of short birth? Is that distress more or less than the distress caused by this:<br /><p></p><blockquote>Unlike a simple first-trimester abortion, which can be completed in one quick office visit, a second-trimester termination is much more complicated, a two-day minimum process. He started it that day by inserting four laminaria sticks made of dried seaweed into my cervix. It was excruciating, and he apologized over and over as I cried out in pain. When I left the examining room, my mom and my husband were shocked -- I was shaking and ghostly white. The pain lasted throughout the night as the sticks collected my body's fluids and expanded, dilating my cervix just like the beginning stages of labor.<br /></blockquote>That's horrifying. To be asked to kill your child is horrifying too. Is it more or less distressing to have to hold the power of life and death over your child? Is it more or less distressing to do it when family and friends are trying to help you, the person they know and love, by advising you to terminate the life that you're making and that you love? Even if you don't love your fetus, how much stress is enough to justify killing someone?<br /><br />Ms. Voss's experience colored her experience of her second pregnancy:<br /><blockquote>As the rest of our prenatal testing results started to pile up, all of them completely normal, we began to let hope back into our hearts. Of course, we know that anything can happen at any time. We'll never forget that. There will be many more months of worry -- and then, I guess, a lifetime more.</blockquote><span id="{E71F65AD-DC4F-46AC-AF46-BB7A8527C429}" style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">Anything can happen at any time.</span> Why kill the fetus? What chance of futile mental distress is worth what chance that doctors may have gotten it wrong? How much distress is worth a life?<br /><br />The ready availability of abortion detrimentally impacts women's and babies' health. Why spend resources pushing difficult and expensive in utero surgeries when you can just start over with a new pregnancy? But if there's no one pushing the envelope with this treatment, medical science will never progress. The hospital nearest my house has a policy that if you come in with a miscarriage at less than 20 weeks, <span style="font-weight: bold;">they will not try to save the pregnancy</span>. Start over. Let it die. Death doesn't matter when you're spared the gory details.<br /><br />I believe that death does matter. Or better stated: Life matters. The lives of babies born and unborn, and the lives of the men and women they grow up to be. All of these statements presuppose that the "tissue" growing inside a woman is a human and a life, and that human life is worth protecting.<br /><br />Because let's not play games about where life begins. We know a fetus is <span id="{FDF4EBE2-5B83-4809-8E24-94013BCB294F}" style="font-style: italic;">alive</span>. It's alive just the same as I'm alive and our betta fish is alive. My hamsters used to be alive, and rumor has it that the brown plant on my patio may be alive even yet. A fetus, or embryo, or blastocyst is alive the way tasty cows and corn plants are alive, until they're butchered and harvested to make my dinner. The question isn't when a fetus is <span id="{B3844A24-37A4-4130-97F3-3525FB63D21A}" style="font-style: italic;">alive</span>. The question is "should we care." <br /><br />We don't care when some things are killed. I'm happy when roaches are killed. My only regret when celery plants get killed is that I might have to eat them too. But are human cells at the earliest stages more like celery plants or more like babies? If anything, right at the outset, they probably look a lot like bacteria, single-celled organisms. But I'm an educated person, so I know that two things can share similar characteristics, but still be very different. Bacteria and blastocysts are freakin' tiny. But so are hydrogen and helium atoms. Only one explodes. Terminating the life of a fetus isn't quite like cutting off a pinky toe either, even though that's living human tissue. Limbs don't have a separate chromosomal identity. Fertilized eggs carry human DNA, a complete set of unique chromosomes. Obliterating a fetus obliterates all of the descendants that won't be created from itself - preemptive tribal genocide. Fetuses are human, and they are alive.<br /><br />If that sounds overly academic, that's because it is. <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/fetal-development-images-6-weeks">By six weeks</a>, that living human has an eye spot, upper and lower jaws coming in, buds for arms and legs. How many women even know they're pregnant then, especially if it's unexpected? Click through the graphics, watch it grow. It's got these weird nubbly arms and legs, but it's still a living human. God help us if the standard is that it's ok to kill the weird-looking humans. (I, for one, would be screwed.) <br /><br />Analytically, life begins at conception. Human life. A separate human life. Should we care? Only if we care about human life at all. If we don't care about human life in general, we wouldn't care about protecting a mother's health, comfort, and dignity either. How much should we care? After all, the pre-viable fetus needs the mother to live, and that is not without cost.<br /><br />I recognize that the interests of mother and fetus may not always be in accord. But protecting human life has to be the highest moral value. When you weigh the competing interests of mother and child, life trumps all. If the mother is going to be inconvenienced, the fetus wins. Mental distress versus life? Life is more important. If the pregnancy risks the mother's life? Whoa, there. That's different. Pro-life doesn't say that the fetus is more important than the mother. Life = life. Arguing against a pro-life position by saying you are anti-woman makes no sense in this moral framework and certainly isn't persuasive. Couching the question in mom versus baby begs the question of how to compare the moral weight of the interests at issue. The emotional toll brought on by a difficult, unwanted, and or seemingly-futile pregnancy can be devastating and profound. Preventing that emotional and mental distress would be worth great cost. But not the cost of taking someone else's life. <br /><br />I sympathize with Ms. Voss more than I can properly explain. But I wonder too about her family, her "Catholic father and Republican father-in-law." They seem so hopeless. "Anything can happen," she says, while acting as though death is certain. I can't help but wonder how much of the residual sadness she feels could have been avoided or relieved by taking solace in the fact that she did all she could do. Physically and emotionally, she wasn't ready to go. She admits fighting the anesthesia to hold on to being pregnant just a few minutes longer. How can we know what would have happened had she let things go on? How can we know what damage was done to her soul (or psyche, if you prefer) in deciding to kill the child she so desperately wanted. By having the abortion, we'll never know. We can never know, in this world, how it would have been different if all the people who were killed had been allowed to live.<br /><br />I used to be pro-choice, rabidly so. I <span style="font-weight: bold;">hate </span>government, and I don't want it fiddling in my uterus. I was fiscal conservative/social liberal because I thought people were almost always better off being left alone. Life disabused me of this misguided notion. The culture we live in matters. There are people who are vulnerable, who are sick, and who need help in any society. If the culture doesn't care about them or their problems, humanity suffers. <br /><br />In our culture, abortion is legal. It is, to be blunt, less messy than other ways of having a pregnancy terminate. Pregnancy is awful in ways you cannot possibly imagine, and I could not possibly explain. And other women have much worse pregnancies than I did. Add this to tremendous social and institutional pressure in favor of abortion for poor women, black women, school-age girls and women, women with "imperfect" or disabled fetuses. Pregnant women are treated with contempt and loathing in many parts of society, especially the workplace. I don't think people like to be reminded so viscerally of the fact that we're so animal. Birthrates decline as countries prosper. <br /><br />So much as I hate to admit it, the culture matters. If our culture truly valued human life in all its forms, women wouldn't walk into hospitals while having a miscarriage and wait in the waiting room as a low priority because triage determines that there's not really anything they can do for you. A medical system that valued human life in all its forms wouldn't send you a doctor who just shakes his head while you try and fail to get the words out, to explain through your tears that you've read articles about 21-week old fetuses that lived and you're at 19-and-a-half so please, <span id="{939EE84C-9DC0-4698-A0B8-9FD2D648BC44}" style="font-style: italic;">please</span> take a chance on me. A life-loving culture wouldn't tell you it was hospital policy not to even try and as a matter of fact, there's a separate wing of the hospital you have to check in to if you want to save your baby but you haven't hit the "right" gestational age to qualify.<br /><br />Abortion is the easy way to get out of the messy facts of life, like neural tube defects and downs syndrome and otherwise unexplained miscarraige. It's the easy answer we let doctors give when they don't know what to do, and trust me, when you're pregnant, you discover how frighteningly little anyone knows about the awesome act of creating life.<br /><br />* * * * *<br /><br />The emergency room doctor gave us some privacy while he left to go schedule the D&C. I didn't want to face delivering the remains of my dead child at home. They'll just take it out, he said. A friend in the same position only took one day off work when her first fetus was determined to be "growing too slow" and removed. It was New Years Day. I wouldn't even need to take vacation. <br /><br />My ob-gyn came in a few hours later to do the pre-op. Yet another pelvic exam left me so sore I could hardly move. Hospital policy required a Foley catheter for an ultrasound that hurt every second it was in. Insult to injury - the ultrasound showed that my body was having severe contractions. I don't know what it showed the baby's body as doing. All they told me was "dead." <br /><br />"Schedule the procedure," I demanded. I know my rights.<br /><br />I was angry when my doctor told me it was better not to do any medical intervention if at all possible. What were we supposed to tell our families? "Oh hey, my dead baby is going to fall out of me any minute. And Happy Holidays, by the way." Ever tactful, we told them exactly that. <br /><br />And then we waited. <br /><br />How many days are you supposed to wait for your dead baby to fall out of you?<br /><br />We waited 22 more weeks.<br /><br />There is such relief in not having to be God. <br /><br />She is so beautiful it will make your heart stop. <br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I nearly killed her.</span>Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-35330733366165151862008-10-01T11:36:00.000-07:002008-10-01T11:50:04.494-07:00controlled burnA <a href="http://www.riehlworldview.com/carnivorous_conservative/2008/09/the-case-for-le.html">good post here</a> called "The Case for Letting it Burn" makes me think of forestry policy in relation to the financial mess. I'm opposed to the pie-in-the-sky policies that caused the volatility and extent of the crisis. Each day that the sky doesn't fall makes me wonder if the bailout is necessary and solidifies my opposition to it. I always think of leftist policies as feel-good short-term things, from their economics to their environmental (Free houses for poor people! Trees are good!). The illusion of a poorly managed forest is nice, controlled burns can be ugly, but the result is a healthier forest overall and in the future.<br /><br />So I say no bailout. Let this be a controlled burn to destroy the waste of the economy so that good big new economic trees can grow.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-15693007824578924292008-09-26T21:52:00.001-07:002008-09-26T22:11:54.165-07:00The Relevance of Personal SacrificeCount me among those who believed McCain was "the least repulsive Democrat running." But the last few weeks have really solidified for me that McCain is actually going to be a better president than I would have expected and a clearly superior choice to Obama. <br /><br />I recognize that not everyone is going to read into this the same way that I did, but I thought McCain's temporary suspension of his campaign was admirable. I don't believe that there was nothing McCain could have done. The man is powerful enough that he's got quite a bit of political capital. If he's willing to spend it to get a bailout done, that's good. If he's willing to do it at the expense of his campaign, that's precisely the person I want to lead us through the crisis.<br /><br />I also thought that he was being attacked unfairly by the post-debate pundits. I think that most informed people understand by now that the bank and insurance company failures can be traced to the subprime housing crisis, a Democrat idea become law through a sometimes complicit Republican minority. Many attacked McCain for failing to point this out or assign blame, but think about that. Had he done so, he would have undermined his credibility in the Senate as a bipartisan negotiator. Again, he passed up the political points he could have made during a debate - a format and topic that was supposed to favor him! - in service of a greater goal.<br /><br />I don't know if my impression is just confirmation bias, since I was always going to vote for Obama's opponent. Other people aren't going to draw the same conclusions from these actions. But I see the man, and I know his history of personal sacrifice for the public good, and even though I disagree with him on so much, I can't help but trust him.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-39262242786032405452008-09-19T09:58:00.002-07:002008-09-19T11:21:25.390-07:00Despicable lies? Does he really want to play that game?Here's the transcript of Obama's new ad responding to the <a href="http://adepaul.blogspot.com/2008/09/this-was-pretty-gross.html">Gianna Jessen ad</a> with some fact-checking interspersed: (transcript via <a href="http://michellemalkin.com/2008/09/19/whos-afraid-of-gianna-jessen-answer-barack-obama/">Michelle</a>)<br /><blockquote>[V]otes taken out of context accusing Obama of letting infants die. . .<br /></blockquote>Out of context? This isn't some last-minute amendment tacked on to an omnibus budget bill. The sole reason for the bill was to close the loophole in existing Illinois state law that permitted doctors to withhold lifesaving or comfort care from infants born alive during an abortion procedure. And only 9 people voted against it . . . including Obama. Looks like the other legislators understood the context all right.<br /><blockquote> It’s a despicable lie.</blockquote> <p><span style="font-style: italic;"></span>So what you're saying, Senator, is that lying as bad? Interesting. . .<br /></p> <p></p><blockquote>Even the bill’s Republican sponsor said it’s untrue. Obama’s always supported medical care to protect infants.</blockquote><p></p><p>Except, of course, Obama doesn't define "infant" as "born-alive fetus" but "<span style="font-weight: bold;">wanted</span> born-alive fetus." <span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-style: italic;"></span></p><blockquote>McCain? </blockquote>Oh, so we're talking about McCain now? That's interesting, because that's not actually a McCain ad you're talking about, is it?<p></p><p></p><blockquote>He’s running on a platform to ban abortion, even in cases of rape and incest.</blockquote><p></p> <p>No he isn't. McCain supports abortion for rape and incest. You're thinking of Palin here, who is not actually at the top of the ticket. I know you get confused about that sometimes.</p><p></p><blockquote>Sleazy ads.</blockquote><p></p><p>Oh yes. (Yours.)<br /></p> <p></p><blockquote>Anti-choice.</blockquote>Anti-the choice to let "born-alive fetuses" die!<br /><p></p><p></p><blockquote>That’s John McCain.</blockquote>From the beginning of the ad.<br /><p></p><p></p><blockquote> I’m Barack Obama and I approve this message</blockquote><p></p><p></p><blockquote><p>John McCain’s Attacks: “the sleaziest ads ever”, “truly vile”</p></blockquote><p>That's right kids! Lying is bad, John McCain is sleazy, and Barack can prove it by countering an attack McCain didn't make. <br /></p><p>Come to think of it, John, maybe you should!<br /></p><p><br /></p>Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-84794212083219321862008-09-19T09:58:00.001-07:002008-09-19T10:14:18.890-07:00Colorado . . . hmmm.<a href="http://corner.nationalreview.com/post/?q=MGFmODE3ZmQ2YTFhYWJlNjI4ODBjMzgwNmI1Njk1OWI=">If Colorado is</a> the <a href="http://www.realclearpolitics.com/articles/2008/09/whats_the_top_electoral_colleg.html">new Florida</a> (and God help us if we end up with another Florida-2000 situation), then isn't this bad news for Republicans? <br /><br />By the time Western voters get out of work and head to the polls, the race usually seems decided. I see a lot more potential for media interference with Western voter turnout when calling the Eastern races. If the battleground is Colorado, then what happens if one side has 3 hours to prepare the battleground before the other side arrives for the fight?Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-15121357999538990282008-09-19T09:58:00.000-07:002008-09-19T10:01:33.708-07:00The method of delivery.At the Corner this morning:<br /><blockquote><span>Alaska’s Bridge to Nowhere remains a hot topic in the presidential campaign. Fans and foes of Republican vice-presidential nominee Sarah Palin continue to debate whether or not she supported the much-lampooned proposal for a link between Ketchikan and Gravina Island — population 50. <a href="http://www.nationalreview.com/murdock/murdock_bridge-to-nowhere.ppt"><span>This PowerPoint presentation</span></a> offers relevant facts on this issue. </span></blockquote><span>I'm thrilled with Palin, but I have questions about the maneuvering behind the Bridge to Nowhere. Even so, I can't think of anything I'd rather click LESS than a powerpoint show.<br /><br /><br /></span>Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-6584311484310946622008-09-17T09:57:00.000-07:002008-09-17T09:57:01.051-07:00This was pretty gross.<span style="font-style:italic;">I know, redundant title for a post re: Alan Colmes.</span><br /><br />You don't shoot rapid fire questions at a woman with cerebral palsy who is trying to take a half second to gather her thoughts.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/KKj109ZST3g&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/KKj109ZST3g&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br />Alan tries to claim that the bills Obama voted against wouldn't apply to Jessen because infants were protected if they had a "reasonable likelihood of sustained survival." I know what Jessen was going to say - because of the cerebral palsy, SHE did not have a reasonable likelihood of sustained survival. She very unreasonably lived (here in the states where life is a miracle, we call that "beating the odds"). As such, she is right, Alan is wrong - the laws Obama refused to amend would have allowed her to be legally killed.<br /><br />Obviously Alan is in an untenable position here. He can disagree as a matter of policy, but isn't rude enough to tell the girl to her face that she should have died. But isn't that the basis for the left's support of abortion? That the loss of unwanted fetuses is acceptable for the greater good of protecting a woman's bodily integrity?<br /><br />My life got a lot easier when I realized that shame didn't indicate a difficult position, it indicated an incorrect position. <br /><br />But look at what Alan actually said and apparently believes: It should be ok to refrain from giving care to babies (that's what we call fetuses that are born alive) without:<br /><br />Reasonable likelihood of sustained survival. <br /><br />Reasonable? <br /><br />That's civil case standard. Failure to use "reasonable care" gets you civilly sued. It's not enough for criminal liability anywhere, ever. <br /><br />But "reasonable" is enough to let the baby die?<br /><br />And note that it's reasonable in the eye of one paid abortion provider who is likely facing civil liability for "unreasonably" delivering a live infant during an abortion procedure. (Note: "Wrongful life" is an actionable claim in some states, just like "wrongful death"!!) <br /><br />At least in a civil case, you get the community standard for reasonableness - twelve people decide. If you're a baby, your judge, jury, and executioner is a physician on the hook for substantial increase in malpractice premiums who can save himself by quietly snuffing out your life. And in a civil case, you have lawyers. The born-alive fetus (baby) has no advocate in the abortion clinic. <br /><br />As a practical matter, I'd bet that this still occurs even with the laws in place. The stakes are too high for the physician and the way to save themselves too simple and easy. But that's why the law is important - you need big teeth to shift the incentives in the other direction. <br /><br />Obama would let the doctor decide "reasonableness" on the spot. Then he would let the abortionist strangle the innocent, or cut her throat.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-80966837491267884892008-09-17T05:50:00.000-07:002008-09-17T05:50:01.074-07:00Do you trust him with your kid?<span style="font-style: italic;">I read the SIECUS Guidelines so you don't have to!</span><br /><br />Obama thinks it should have been legal for me to <a href="http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2008/08/14/obama-on-his-support-for-infanticide-i-will-not-yield/">stab my baby girl in the head and kill her while I was giving birth to her, so long as she came out feet first</a><a href="http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2008/08/14/obama-on-his-support-for-infanticide-i-will-not-yield/">.</a> <br /><br />He also thinks that her kindergarten teacher <a href="http://firstread.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/07/19/277886.aspx">should tell her</a>:<br /><blockquote>• A boy/man has nipples, a penis, a scrotum, and testicles.<br />• A girl/woman has breasts, nipples, a vulva, a clitoris, a vagina, a uterus, and ovaries.<br />• Both boys and girls have body parts that feel good when touched.</blockquote><a href="http://www.siecus.org/_data/global/images/guidelines.pdf">SIECUS</a> guidelines, page 25 (NOTE: All quotes below are from the <span style="font-weight: bold;">age 5-8 category</span>)<br /><blockquote>• Men and women have specific cells in their bodies (sperm cells and egg cells) that enable them to reproduce.<br />• Vaginal intercourse – when a penis is placed inside a vagina – is the most common way for a sperm and egg to join.<br />• Babies usually come out of a woman’s body through an opening called a vagina.</blockquote>page 26-27. <br /><blockquote>• Human beings can love people of the same gender and people of another gender.<br />• Some people are homosexual, which means they can be attracted to and fall in love with someone of the same gender.<br /></blockquote>page 29.<br /><blockquote>• Many people live in lifetime committed relationships, even though they may not be legally married.<br />• Two people of the same gender can live in loving, lifetime committed relationships.</blockquote>page 38-39.<br /><br /><blockquote>• Most children are curious about their bodies.<br />• Bodies can feel good when touched.</blockquote>page 51.<br /><blockquote>• Touching and rubbing one’s own genitals to feel good is called masturbation.<br />• Some boys and girls masturbate and others do not.<br />• Masturbation should be done in a private place.<br /></blockquote>page 51-52.<br /><blockquote>• People often kiss, hug, touch, and engage in other sexual behaviors with one another to show caring and to feel good.</blockquote>page 52.<br /><blockquote>• There are many types of sexually transmitted diseases.<br />• People who do not engage in certain behaviors do not get STDs.<br />• The most common ways for a person to get an STD is to participate in sexual behavior or share a needle with another person who is already infected with an STD.</blockquote>page 63.<br /><br />This is just for the real young kiddies. The material for the older ones is shocking. The SEICUS guys apparently have quite the hard-on (sorry) for masturbation in particular. In later grades they learn that masturbation, homosexuality, and unmarried cohabitation is ok, that they can decide that religious teachings aren't personally "relevant," and that the Internet can enhance your sex life (seriously). <br /><br />This is the man who wants government involved full-time in your child's life through universal pre-K and a lack of ways for people (particularly poor people) to opt out of public schooling. These are not simply academic concerns.<br /><br />So I honestly to pose the question - Do you trust him with your kid? <br /><br />I need to know who not to trust with my kid.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-38551936910471991582008-09-16T23:03:00.000-07:002008-09-16T23:14:39.740-07:00This is new to me.Before Andrew Sullivan's Palin-induced freakout, I had never thought, nor had it ever occurred to me that certain (or ANY) parts of the gay male subculture had a deep-seated loathing for women and children. Since then, people online plus random non-political junkie coworkers (!) have told me that this is the case. <br /><br />I have no idea whether that's true. <br /><br />But I have to wonder every time I see <a href="http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2008/09/responding-to-h.html">Sullivan</a> refer to Trig Palin as a <span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">prop.</span></span> Whatever the circumstances, when you see a mother with her baby in her arms and that strikes you as odd, abnormal, improper, political, or calculating, there is something <span id="{79756DF1-FB2C-459B-BEBF-6782B990E229}" style="font-weight: bold;">deeply </span>wrong with you. <br /><br />What else can explain it?Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-74943369607733727382008-09-16T18:17:00.000-07:002008-09-16T14:14:42.237-07:00This (to me) is a HUGE BIG DEAL.<span style="font-style: italic;">hence the use of CAPS.<br /></span><br />I've seen, but opted out of the "I am Sarah Palin" meme because I'm not Sarah Palin. If anyone, I'm Barack Obama - someone who follows the rules, who seeks success by playing the game brilliantly, but definitely playing the game (see, e.g., "Chicago Machine Politics, law firm partnership track). I'm just sayin' - it takes a certain kind of person to go to a graduate school to learn nothing of use but to learn "<a href="http://adepaul.blogspot.com/2008/09/thinking-like-lawyer.html">how to think like</a>." Perfecting the world comes through perfecting the self.<br /><br />It trickles down, you see.<br /><br />That's bad in a President though. You can't assume that the interests of the person are going to align with the interests of the country. <a href="http://www.nypost.com/seven/09152008/postopinion/opedcolumnists/obama_tried_to_stall_gis_iraq_withdrawal_129150.htm">Especially when</a>:<br /><br /><blockquote>Sen. <a href="http://www.nypost.com/news/p/obama_barack/obama_barack.htm">Barack Obama</a> has tried in private to persuade Iraqi leaders to delay an agreement on a draw-down of the American military presence. <p> . . .<br /></p> <p> "He asked why we were not prepared to delay an agreement until after the US elections and the formation of a new administration in Washington," Zebari said in an interview. </p></blockquote>He's already proven himself willing to jeopardize the nation's foreign interests to political expediency! Forget whether you disagree with Bush's foreign policy. What about the interest America has in being able to trust its allies not to try to renegotiate everything every four years? Or in expecting other countries to be able to believe our promises?<br /><br />If there is a good explanation for this, I would really like to know.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-21210294123009314052008-09-16T11:54:00.000-07:002008-09-16T14:15:44.084-07:00Pre-adolescent Worldview of the Obama following<span style="font-style: italic;">Pretentious blog title aside, I'm just riffing here on a few things that occurred to me lately.</span><br /><br />My mom's stock answer growing up was "life isn't fair," which for a kid so invested with the idea of her own brilliance was devastating. "Life isn't fair" isn't something you can reason your way around. At least not when you're 10.<br /><br />When I was in middle school, my best friend was OBSESSED with the idea of becoming a Navy SEAL. Her dad, who passed away when she was very young, was in the Navy I think. Her sister was the brain, she was the tomboy (although both were brilliant), and I think she may have been trying to be the son her dad never left behind. She was desperately upset at the idea that women couldn't (can't) be SEALs. "First woman SEAL" is her "Where will they be?" caption in our eighth grade yearbook. We were practically faint with excitement when the ban on women in combat was partially lifted (I wanted to be a government assassin.) We read way too many Robert Ludlum novels. <br /><br />But then we went to high school and she freaked out with hormones - slipping grades, dabbling in alcohol and drugs, boy after unsuitable boy. Lots of people, myself included, wondered how such a great girl would so willingly throw her prospects out the window. Six months later, mine hit. Catastrophically. And I wondered no more. <br /><br />I think about her whenever I hear of the argument for gender segregation in the military, <a href="http://corner.nationalreview.com/post/?q=NmNhNDNjMThlZTI1N2RhMmQ1ZWQzNmMxYmEzNWY2MzM=">like this one at the Corner this morning</a>.<br /><br />When I look back at how fervently we believed, how much our own self-worth was tied up in the idea of life being fair, as in EQUAL, I almost can't recall the feeling of uncomplicated faith in our rightness and righteousness. There is such a beauty and wonder about the way children - even the girls - dream about their future. <br /><br />But I think we were wrong then, because we don't live in the kind of world where an uncomplicated faith can be sustained. Children can look at the shining ideal of "equality" see it as more than a value, but as a means, end, and entire belief system unto itself. Only children can honestly believe that men and women are the same. When they become men and women, they know better. <br /><br />There's been a lot written about the Democrats in politics or Hollywood that root for Obama because their children do. Their worshipful treatment, his Messiah-like image, all of it has a kind of childlike wonder, bright and full with their dreams. Should he lose, there are very, very many people who are going to be distraught in a way they would not for other political candidates or races. <br /><br />What do they expect to achieve with him though? Other than "hope" and "change" and "a new political discourse"? This is the real world, and real life isn't fair. It won't let us choose the purest of candidates and follow wherever he may lead us and trust that he will not lead us astray. What does Obama stand for? The only real political record we can look to is his lockstep vote with Democratic Party leadership and 100% record of voting against the unborn. It isn't fair that these are choices we have to deal with. Life isn't fair. I have yet to have a conversation with an Obama supporter that can tell me anything about what concrete actions they expect Obama to take in office. Their obligation to the world stops at their support. <br /><br />The Utopia children dream of is simple and pure and uncomplicated. It's also arbitrary and uninformed and rote. The world of adults is harder. It's dirty and unexpected and infinitely complicated. But it's better.<br /><br />I hope my old friend is happy, even though she isn't a SEAL. And even though I'm more June Cleaver than La Femme Nikita, I'm happier this way too.Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215108424546444548.post-34874868998626363462008-09-15T16:13:00.000-07:002008-09-15T16:14:32.306-07:00life intrudesMy kiddo had to go to the hospital over the weekend for some nasty creeping crud. Luckily, we're all on the mend. <br /><br />Back in a few days . . .Athena DePaulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02919483144014263976noreply@blogger.com0